[quote author=deebee link=topic=12413.msg242480#msg242480 date=1222352608]
i suppose because what i quoted really isnt working, it is raising his adrenalin not in a good way, so that he is ignoring me. [/quote]
you think i should blindly carry on? surely i should reassess. if something isnt working (in fact escalating the problem), do something else. do you see what i mean?