Bev had said at the begining that one of the boys should go :nono:. But we were prepared to try and sort it and she tried to help. Maybe if it had been done a lot sooner then things might have been different :'(.
Buster has a partial hearing problem so things might well have still ended up the same anyway.
Dylan is a lot more outgoing and playful now that he is on his own, so we will be making the most of him and maybe introducing another oES at a later stage when he is a bit older and more settled.
We will still be carrying on with his training with Bev when we get bakc off holiday, which I think has come at the right time to help with the current hurt. :'( :'(