I’m listening perfectly thanks and happy ‘agree to disagree’ …
capitals do not nessesarily mean shouting – they just put emphasis on the word e.g.
GRRRRR – I CANT STAND PPL WHO WALK DOGS AND TALK ON THE PHONE !!!!!!!!! (would very obviously be shouting / frustrated)
and i got half way across the field and really NEEDED the toilet (would be very obviously emphasis).
cyberspace is constantly evolving and the ‘caps is shouting’ thing has evolved with it …. if you spoke the original sentances I wrote you wouldnt shout the word YOU at the person, it would be an emphasis !!