yep val…sure can/is
must admit i find it odd the non sorry bit..we all make boobies but when yiu know after the fact there has been hurt even if you dont understand how you have hurt…folk of our generation and others that are emotionally aware and healthy will say sorry regardless and then it can be discussed…no contact is actually an emotive disruption…yikes…listen to me going back in time ::)
basically….she should have said sorry once she knew she had upset you…regardless of understaning why…
that basic social niceness apart from owt else…and to use bisto ..who really is a sweetheart and her friend is :-\ :-X :-X…seems to be awol